Joseph meets his brothers

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Sermon Notes of Rev.Dr.I.J.W.Oakley (9-8-1998 Guisborough Evangelical Church)

 

Joseph meets his brothers

Genesis 42 & 45

 

Introduction 

The story of Joseph’s brothers’ two visits to Egypt, ending with Joseph revealing himself to them, occupies four chapters of Genesis. The lessons we shall take from the narrative concern the power of conscience, as seen in the brothers, the wonder of full forgiveness, as seen in the actions of Joseph, and the beauty of filial duty observed.

 

Power of conscience

Twenty years earlier, in anger and jealousy, the brothers had seized Joseph, put him into a pit, sold him as a slave, soaked his special coat with blood, and let their father believe that a wild animal had killed Joseph. As a result, their father was heart-broken. Then they tried to push the whole thing out of their minds. Things were good now. They had much to look forward to in the future. Why worry about what was in the past? Joseph was probably dead by now anyway. 

But things did not stay good. Circumstances changed. The unexpected happened. Famine came to the land. Soon all their stores of food were used up, and there was nothing to eat. The future was not rosy now. They were desperate for something to eat. The train of events led them down to Egypt and their meeting with Joseph. They were not long in this situation before their conscience started to disturb them. Their peace and security was shattered. The past came back to haunt them. "Surely we are being punished because of our brother. We saw how distressed he was when he pleaded with us for his life, but we would not listen; that's why this distress has come upon us." (Genesis 42:21). 

And how that sense of guilt deepened with the rough treatment they got from Joseph, and their brief spell in prison (Genesis 42:15, 17; 44:10). And when Joseph finally revealed himself to them, they were not only convicted, but also terror-struck - Joseph said to his brothers, "I am Joseph! Is my father still living?" But his brothers were not able to answer him, because they were terrified at his presence (Genesis 45:3). 

The Bible gives very graphic pictures of the power of the disturbed conscience. Ezra prayed, "O my God, I am too ashamed and disgraced to lift up my face to you, my God, because our sins are higher than our heads and our guilt has reached to the heavens (Ezra 9:6). Recall Peter’s reaction - Peter remembered the word Jesus had spoken: "Before the rooster crows, you will disown me three times." And he went outside and wept bitterly (Matthew 26:75). And Judas’s betrayal - When Judas saw that Jesus was condemned, he was seized with remorse and returned the thirty silver coins to the chief priests and the elders. "I have sinned," he said, "for I have betrayed innocent blood." Then he went away and hanged himself (Matthew 27:3-5). When Paul troubled Felix - As Paul discoursed on righteousness, self-control and the judgment to come, Felix was afraid (A.V. says “trembled”) and said, "That's enough for now!” (Acts 24:25). 

The world’s greatest need is God. We never realize that need until we face the truth about ourselves – how guilty, weak and helpless we are. And we never face this truth until conscience is aroused and sin weighs heavily and burdens us. Then we are forced to seek God. It is amazing how long-forgotten sins come to life in the conscience. The memory of something someone said, a scene we recollect, a place visited after years, something that suddenly rushes into the conscience unbidden. “Thou art the man!” Sometimes the most trivial incident brings back a long-forgotten sin as vividly as if it were yesterday. It often happens when, in God’s mercy, He makes life difficult for us – breaks up the nest, loosens the roots, breaks us down, shatters our pride and independence, and prepares our hearts to face sin. An examination failed, being let down by a friend, the threat of illness, some one dear is struck down, a set back at work. We realize we are not as strong or clever or important as we thought we were. 

When that truth dawns, we need to get to that Rock that is higher than us. We need to find that friend who sticks closer than a brother. Before I was afflicted I went astray, but now I obey your word (Psalm 119:67). When things go wrong in life – whether a non Christian or a half-hearted one – we might be tempted to ask why God, a God of love, is letting it happen to us. It is precisely because He is a God of love that He is allowing things to go wrong. “God whispers to us in pleasures, speaks in our conscience, but shouts at us in our pain. It is God’s megaphone to raise a deaf world.” (C.S.Lewis in The Problem of Pain). 

Such times remind us that we need Him. They are acts of mercy, making us think of God and eternity while there is time. We need to know Him and be at peace with Him before it is too late. God permits trouble to warn people in advance of impending danger. Present loss can be turned into future gain. He dynamites our self-sufficiency to make us bow the knee. “Think of the blessing which suffering can bring, and the result. The question is not why some people suffer, but why some do not (C.S.Lewis). 

Many thank God for disturbance and suffering and setbacks and bereavement, because it brought them near to Christ, or brought the backslider back to Christ. “God puts us on our backs to make us look up.” 

Are things going wrong for you, or for a loved one? Don’t ask where is God’s love. It is right there in the midst of your circumstances. Ask Him what He is saying to you. Ask Him to show you why. What sins need to be forsaken, what obedience is He calling for from you, where have you failed to consecrate your life? Seek Him and His forgiveness. This is ours through the wounds of Jesus. Yield yourself to Him. Blessed is he whose transgressions are forgiven, whose sins are covered (Psalm 32:1). Blessed is the person to whom the Lord says, "For I will forgive their wickedness and will remember their sins no more." (Jeremiah 31:34). As far as the east is from the west, so far has he removed our transgressions from us (Psalm 103:12).

 

The reality of forgiveness

At the end of this section there is a picture of reconciliation between Joseph and his brothers after so many years apart. Everyone else was sent from the room. Alone with his brothers, Joseph wept his heart out, and made himself known. “Come close to me." When they had done so, he said, "I am your brother Joseph, the one you sold into Egypt!” (Genesis 45:4). Then he eases their guilt by saying that behind all their actions was God. Do not be distressed and do not be angry with yourselves for selling me here, because it was to save lives that God sent me ahead of you. For two years now there has been famine in the land, and for the next five years there will not be ploughing and reaping. But God sent me ahead of you to preserve for you a remnant on earth and to save your lives by a great deliverance (Genesis 45:5-7). Then there was kissing and weeping and much talking. What an amazing picture of compassion, forgiveness and kindness after all they had done to him. They had put him in the pit, but now he was on the throne. The tables had been turned. Now it was the brothers who were at his mercy. But Joseph did not take advantage of them or treat them like they had treated him. He realized that they were repentant and sorry, so he fully and freely forgave them. There was no bitterness, no revenge and no reproach. 

This reminds us of Jesus’ teaching, indeed it is a perfect example of what He meant when He said, And when you stand praying, if you hold anything against anyone, forgive him, so that your Father in heaven may forgive you your sins (Mark 11:25). Forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors (Matthew 6:12). If he sins against you seven times in a day, and seven times comes back to you and says, 'I repent,' forgive him (Luke 17:4). Paul reminded the Ephesians that they must have this attitude: Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you (Ephesians 4:32). If in any doubt or hesitation, remember God’s treatment of you – how His love stooped down to you, giving His Son for your forgiveness, whispering in your ear “Your sins which are many are forgiven you.”

 

Filial duty

Joseph showed care, love and concern for his father time and time again in this story. In his conversation with his brothers he repeatedly mentioned and raised the matter of his father. Is your father still living? (Genesis 43:7,27). Then after he had revealed himself to his brothers he was anxious that his father should hear that he was alive, and that he should come down to Egypt to ensure safety and comfort in his old age. His intention was to give him the best of the land of Egypt. 

News of Joseph’s survival brought enormous encouragement to an aging man. He had suffered emotionally over the years because of the false report about Joseph’s death. For 22 years he had lived an embittered and sorrowful life. Now just before death, the gloom is dispersed, and he lives his last few years in the full blaze of sunshine. 

Sometimes God loves to save the best surprises for old age. Never think that the best days are past. Certainly for Jacob, the best had yet to come. Especially noteworthy was the love and concern for father which had not diminished with years or distance. Joseph might have become Prime Minister of Egypt, but his regard for his father was undiminished. His father might have been a feeble geriatric from a backward and simple country home, but Joseph was not ashamed of him. 

Strength of family ties and respect for parents is a real message for this generation where respect for age and authority is too often despised. God’s Word is so clear: Honour your father and mother (Exodus 20:12). The Lord Himself set us a good example: He went down to Nazareth with them and was obedient to them (Luke 2:51). His last thoughts were for His mother: When Jesus saw his mother there, and the disciple whom he loved standing nearby, he said to his mother, "Dear woman, here is your son," and to the disciple, "Here is your mother." From that time on, this disciple took her into his home (John 19:26,27). Obedience or disobedience to this commandment brings God’s blessing or His curse.

 

Conclusion

God, through this passage, says three things to us very plainly. Firstly, blessed is the man whose transgression is forgiven. Secondly, be knit to one another, tenderhearted and forgiving. And thirdly, honour your father and mother.

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